The basics of churning are this.......you must do everything in your power to go on a date a week. Now this means.....internet dating, speed dating, approaching someone you fancy, etc. It basically is a huge crash course in CONFIDENCE and THERE ARE NO EXCUSES. It's fine not to actually have a date a week as long as you have done ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING you can to get one. It is putting yourself out there and it worked for me wonders, its' not actually about meeting anyone its about getting the confidence and in the routine of dating so that when someone we really like comes along we're ready! Okay so...
TO DO:
- SIGN UP FOR ONLINE DATING and DON'T BE PICKY. Remember a date is better than no date so even if you don't think you fancy their picture do it anyway.
- Sign up for speed dating.
- Join something you don't usually do.... e.g book club where you'll meet a new pool of people
- Ask someone once a week for coffee.
It's scary but really fun and a great personal challenge!