Firstly I am so happy that Betti met someone, even though I cannot believe you didn't share. Too special? What are we? A box of Cheerios? Papa Churn frown, Papa Churn smile, Papa Churn has wrinkles from opposing emotions. I have not met the guy but am sure he is lovely.
Belle keep up the good work, however if these guys you're dating are beginning to bore you dump 'em just make sure you have another date lined up! I feel like you may be reaching a Churlump, which is a slump mixed with a dash of churn. Let's find a new resource of men for you-try something you don't normally do, go sky diving, join a book group anything that may get you to meet different men to the ones you're already meeting. Shake it up baby.
Now onto todays new dating tool, two simple words that hold a whole world of meaning and in the dating world the are the second or third most important phrase close to "Being exclusive" and "I love you". In the dating world you must never assume anything! A guy says he has a great job, assume he is unemployed, it says a guy is 5ft9 on his match.com profile, he's a teeny tiny nugget of a man, your man is perfect, don't assume you've found the man of your dreams, it ain't over till the fat Papa sings at your wedding. Even then don't assume you'll be happy! While this message sounds a little negative the point of it is a little insurance so that a) you keep things exciting and fresh in your relationships and b) you don't lose your perspective-keep a clear head.
The churn never ends.......even when you're happily with someone...one date a week, no excuses! I never said it couldn't be with the same guy!
